Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi imfihlo yokwenza eyona ndawo intle yokubuyela ngaphandle?

Ukudala indawo yangaphandle yamaphupha ngamanye amaxesha kunokuziva ngathi uzama ukusombulula iRubik's Cube evalwe amehlo. Uyayazi into oyifunayo, kodwa ukuya khona? Nantso inxalenye ekhohlisayo. Ndikhe ndalapho-ndijonge ngasemva kweyadi emdaka, ndinqwenela indawo epholileyo, kodwa ndingaqinisekanga ukuba mandiqale ngaphi. Masiyiqhawule kunye. Chonga uMbono Wakho Kuqala, ndithathe umzuzwana ukuba ndibe nombono wendawo yam engaphandle efanelekileyo. Ngaba yayiyindawo epholileyo yekofu yasekuseni? Igadi edlamkileyo yokonwabisa? Okanye mhlawumbi indawo ezolileyo yokuphumla? Ukuchaza lo mbono kubalulekile. Thatha incwadana kwaye ubhale phantsi iingcinga zakho. Zoba izimvo okanye uqokelele imifanekiso ekukhuthazayo. Eli nyathelo linceda ukucacisa oko ufuna ngokwenene. Vavanya iNdawo yakho Okulandelayo, ndivavanye indawo yam yangaphandle. Ngawaphi amandla kunye nobuthathaka bayo? Ingaba kukho ukukhanya kwelanga okwaneleyo kwizityalo? Ingakanani indawo endinayo yefenitshala? Ukulinganisa indawo yakho kunokuthintela iintloko ezibuhlungu kwixesha elizayo. Ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba ukuqonda isicwangciso kwandinceda ukuba ndenze izigqibo ezinolwazi malunga noko ndiza kuqukwa. Seta uHlahlo-lwabiwo-mali Ngoku, masithethe ngamanani. Ukucwangcisa uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali kunokuziva kunzima, kodwa kubalulekile. Ndifunde kabuhlungu ukuba iindleko zinokunyuka ukuba awulumkanga. Dwelisa iindleko ezinokubakho—izityalo, ifanitshala, izibane nezinto zokuhombisa. Yabela icandelo ngalinye imali, kwaye uzame ukunamathela kuyo. Oku kuya kugcina iprojekthi yakho isendleleni. Khetha izinto eziLungileyo Ngombono, uvavanyo lwendawo, kunye nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali esandleni, lixesha lokukhetha izinto ezizisa iphupha lakho ebomini. Ndigxininise kwibhalansi yokusebenza kunye nobuhle. Umzekelo, ndikhethe ifenitshala enganyangekiyo kwimozulu yokuqina kunye nezityalo ezidlamkileyo ukongeza umbala. Cinga ngendlela iqhekeza ngalinye elingena ngayo kumbono wakho wonke. Yenza iSicwangciso Ngoku kuza inxalenye eyonwabisayo-ucwangcisa uyilo! Ndazoba uyilo olurhabaxa, ndibeka ifanitshala, izityalo, kunye neendlela apho baziva belungile. Qwalasela ukuhamba nokufikeleleka. Ufuna ukuba indawo yakho imeme kwaye kube lula ukuhamba. Ungalibazisi ukucwangcisa kwakhona de kube ngathi ilungile. Yongeza izinto zoMntu Okokugqibela, lixesha lokufefa kubuntu bakho! Ndongeze iicushion zokuhombisa, iiplanti ezizodwa, kunye nezibane ezikhanyayo. Oku kuchukunyiswa kwenza ukuba indawo ibe ngathi likhaya. Khumbula, ziinkcukacha ezincinci ezinokuguqula indawo elungileyo ibe yindawo enkulu. Yonwabela iOasis Yakho Yangaphandle Emva kwalo lonke ucwangciso kunye nokusebenza nzima, lixesha lokuba uhlale phantsi wonwabele i-oasis yakho yangaphandle. Ndisayikhumbula ingokuhlwa yokuqala endayichithela phandle, ndiphunga iti yaye ndimanzi tixi. Kwakuwufanele wonke umgudu. Ukudala indawo yakho yangaphandle yamaphupha luhambo, kodwa ngombono ocacileyo, ukucwangciswa ngononophelo, kunye nokufafaza kokuyila, unokuguqula igadi yakho ibe yiparadesi yakho. Ngoko, ulindele ntoni? Masiqalise!

Ukudala i-oasis yangaphandle kunokuziva kunzima. Ndiye ndalapho—ndijonge kwiyadi emdaka ngasemva, ndiphupha kwindawo ezolileyo yokurhoxa kodwa ndingaqinisekanga ukuba mandiqale ngaphi. Ukuba unjengam, ufuna isithuba esiziva simema kwaye siphumla, indawo yokuphumla emva kosuku olude. Masijongane oku kunye, inyathelo ngenyathelo! Okokuqala, hlola indawo yakho. Jonga ngeenxa zonke kwaye uchonge into onayo. Ingaba yipatio encinci okanye iyadi ethe saa? Ukuqonda indawo okuyo kukunceda ube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wento enokwenzeka. Okulandelayo, cinga ngeemfuno zakho. Ngaba uyafuna indawo yokufunda epholileyo, indawo yokutyela edlamkileyo, okanye mhlawumbi igadi enoxolo? Ndaqonda ukuba ndifuna umxube womathathu! Bhala phantsi into oyibonayo, kwaye sizise ezo mbono ebomini. Ngoku, makhe sithethe ngezityalo. Ukongeza uhlaza kuguqula nayiphi na indawo. Ndincoma ukuqala ngeenketho zokugcinwa okuphantsi njenge-succulents okanye izityalo zendalo. Bomelele kwaye abayi kufuna ingqwalasela enkulu. Zilungiselele kwiimbiza okanye ngokuthe ngqo emhlabeni ukudala ukuhamba kwendalo. Ifenitshala ibalulekile. Khetha amaqhekeza akhululekileyo kunye nokumelana nemozulu. Ndafumanisa ukuba i-hammock elula kunye nezitulo ezimbalwa zokuphumla zajika iyadi yam yaba yindawo yokuphumla. Ungalibali itafile yokutya kunye neziselo-emva koko, yintoni i-oasis engenazo iziphungo? Ukukhanyisa kubeka umoya. Izibane zentambo okanye izibane ezisebenza ngelanga zinokudala umoya womlingo njengoko ilanga litshona. Ndiyayithanda indlela izibane ezimbalwa ezibekwe kakuhle ezinokwenza ngayo inyadi yam yangasemva ibe ngathi yindawo yokuphumla epholileyo. Okokugqibela, yongeza uchuku lomntu. Nokuba ngumraphu onemibala, imiqamelo yokuhombisa, okanye umgodi womlilo, ezi zinto zenza indawo ibe yeyakho. Ndifumanise ukuba izinto endizithandayo zibalisa ibali kwaye zimema incoko. Ngamafutshane, ukuguqula indawo yakho yangaphandle ibe yi-oasis kubandakanya ukuvavanya indawo yakho, ukuchonga iimfuno zakho, ukubandakanya izityalo kunye nefenitshala, ukongeza ukukhanya, kunye nokwenza indawo ibe yeyakho. Konke kumalunga nokudala indawo ekhululekileyo, ekhangayo apho unokubalekela khona imihla ngemihla. Ke thatha isiselo, ukhabe emva, kwaye wonwabele iparadesi yakho yangaphandle!

Ukutshintsha igadi yakho yangasemva ibe yindawo epholileyo yokuphumla kunokuziva ngathi ngumsebenzi onzima. Ndikhe ndaya apho—ndijonge isiqwenga sengca esibonakala singumsebenzi ngaphezu kwendawo engcwele. Ingxolo yesixeko, isiphithiphithi sobomi bemihla ngemihla, neembopheleleko ezingapheliyo zinokwenza nabani na alangazelele ukusaba ngokuzolileyo kanye ekhaya. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba ndikuxelele ukuba ukwenza i-oasis yakho yobuqu kulula kunokuba ucinga? Masiyiqhekeze inyathelo ngenyathelo. Okokuqala, hlola indawo yakho. Ndikhumbula xa ndiqala ukujonga ngasemva kwendlu yam; yayisele ikhulile yaye iphithizela. Ndithathe impelaveki ukuze ndisuse inkunkuma, ndichebe iheji, ndisuse nantoni na engeyoyamntu. Esi senzo silula sokunciphisa savula indawo kwaye sayenza yaziva imema ngakumbi. Okulandelayo, cinga ngentuthuzelo. Ukongeza indawo yokuhlala epholileyo kunokutshintsha indawo yangasemva ukusuka kwindawo engahoywayo ibe yindawo yokuphumla eyamkelekileyo. Ndityale imali kwizitulo zangaphandle kunye netafile encinci. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibize kakhulu; nengubo elula kunye neecushion ezithile zinokudala i-nook epholileyo. Ngoku, masenze uhlaza. Izityalo aziyihombisi indawo yakho kuphela, kodwa zikwanika umoya wokuzola. Ndaqala ngezityalo ezimbalwa zembiza kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe ndongeza igadi encinci yemifuno. Amavumba amatsha kunye nemibala yazisa ubomi kwiyadi yam yangasemva, iyenza ibe yindawo eyonwabisayo yokuphumla. Ukukhanyisa yenye into ebalulekileyo. Ukukhanya okuthambileyo kunokudala umoya womlingo ngokuhlwa. Izibane zentambo okanye izibane zingongeza ukukhanya okufudumeleyo kwindawo yakho. Ndikhumbula okokuqala ndilayita izibane zam zentambo; kwavakala ngathi kukungena kwihlabathi elahlukileyo. Okokugqibela, musa ukulibala malunga nokuchukumisa umntu. Dibanisa izinto ezibonisa ubuntu bakho-ingaba yinto yobugcisa obuthandayo, into yamanzi, okanye i-hammock. Ezi nkcukacha zenza indawo ibe yeyakho kwaye iphucule amava ngokubanzi. Isishwankathelo, ukuguqula igadi yakho yangasemva ibe yindawo yokuphumla akufuneki ibe yiprojekthi enkulu. Ngokuthatha amanyathelo amancinci, alawulekayo-ukucoca indawo, ukongeza izihlalo ezikhululekile, ukubandakanya izityalo, ukukhanyisa ukukhanya, kunye nokuzenzela indawo-unokwenza indawo engcwele emema ukuphumla noxolo. Ke bamba iigloves zakho zegadi, kwaye masiqalise ukwenza indawo yangasemva ibe yeyona ndawo ifanelekileyo yokubaleka!

Ngaba uphupha ukwenza ukubaleka okugqibeleleyo kwangaphandle? Ndiyazazi iimvakalelo. Sonke sifuna indawo apho sinokukhululeka khona, siphefumle umoya omtsha, kwaye sonwabele indalo ngaphandle kokushiya ubutofotofo bamakhaya ethu. Kodwa sijika njani elo phupha libe yinyani? Masingene kumanyathelo ukuyila indawo yakho efanelekileyo yangaphandle! Okokuqala, makhe sithethe ngesithuba. Ngaba unayo eyadini yangasemva, ibalcony, okanye uphahla? Vavanya into onayo. Ndakhe ndanebalcony encinci engathi yikona endiyilibeleyo yendlu yam. Ngokuyila okuncinci, ndiyiguqule yaba yindawo yokuphumla epholileyo. Cinga ngento onokusebenza ngayo. Okulandelayo, qwalasela iimfuno zakho. Ufuna ntoni kule ndawo ingaphandle? Ngaba yindawo yokufunda ezolileyo, igadi edlamkileyo, okanye indawo edlamkileyo yokonwabisa abahlobo? Ndaqonda ukuba ndifuna ukuxubana nokuphumla kunye nokuhlalisana. Ke, ndongeze i-hammock yeemvakwemini ezinobuvila kunye netafile encinci yeendibano zangokuhlwa. Ngoku, makhe singene kwicandelo elimnandi: uyilo! Khetha umxholo ohambelana nawe. Nokuba yi-rustic, yanamhlanje, okanye i-bohemian, indawo yakho yangaphandle kufuneka ibonise ubuntu bakho. Ndikhethe i-bohemian vibe enemiqamelo emibalabala kunye nezibane ezikhanyayo, ziyenza ibe yindawo efanelekileyo yokuphupha emini kunye nokujonga iinkwenkwezi. Musa ukulibala malunga nezityalo! Bazisa ubomi kwindawo yakho. Ndiqale ngeendlela ekulula ukuzikhathalela ezifana ne-succulents kunye nemifuno. Abagcini nje ngokuhombisa indawo, kodwa babonelela nangezithako ezintsha zokupheka. Khawufane ucinge uphuma phandle ukuze ukhethe eyakho i-basil kwisidlo sangokuhlwa! Ukukhanyisa yenye into ebalulekileyo. Ukukhanya okufanelekileyo kunokubeka umoya waso nasiphi na isiganeko. Ndafakela izibane zeentambo kwaye ndongeza izibane zokukhanya okufudumele ngexesha langokuhlwa. Iyamangalisa indlela ukukhanya okuncinane okunokuguqula ngayo umoya. Ekugqibeleni, lungisa indawo yakho. Yongeza izinto ezikwenza uncume-mhlawumbi i-gnome yegadi enqabileyo, iragi enemibala, okanye umsebenzi wobugcisa. Ndaxhoma ezimbalwa zeefoto zam endizithandayo kwiifreyimu zemozulu, ndiguqula indawo yam yangaphandle ibe yigalari yeenkumbulo. Ukuqukumbela, ukuyila ukubaleka kwakho kwangaphandle kumalunga nokuqonda indawo yakho, iimfuno kunye nesimbo. Ngobuchule obuncinci kunye nomzamo, unokwenza indawo yokuphumla ekulungela ngokugqibeleleyo. Ke, bamba izixhobo zakho kwaye uqalise! Iphupha lakho lokubalekela ngaphandle linyathelo nje elincinci ukusuka.

Ukudala indawo emangalisayo yangaphandle kunokuziva ngathi ngumsebenzi onzima. Ndiye ndaphaya—ndijonge kwiyadi engasemva engasenanto, ndinqwenela ukuba iguquke ibe yindawo epholileyo. Iindaba ezilungileyo? Kulula kunokuba ucinga! Masichaze indlela yokunyusa indawo yakho yangaphandle inyathelo ngenyathelo. Okokuqala, jonga indawo yakho yangoku. Thatha ixesha lokuhamba-hamba kwaye uchonge into oyithandayo kunye nento ongayifuniyo. Ngaba ixinene kakhulu? Uswele umbala? Okanye mhlawumbi ivakala ingenabomi? Ukuqonda indawo oqala kuyo kubalulekile. Okulandelayo, qwalasela iimfuno zakho. Ngaba ufuna indawo epholileyo yekofu yasekuseni? Ngaba iyindawo ephilayo yokonwabisa abahlobo? Okanye mhlawumbi yindawo enoxolo yokufunda? Ukuchaza injongo yakho kuya kukhokela ukhetho lwakho loyilo. Nje ukuba ube nombono, lixesha lokuqokelela impembelelo. I-Pinterest kunye ne-Instagram yimigodi yegolide yeembono ezintsha. Gcina imifanekiso ehambelana nawe, nokuba kukusetwa kwepatio ye-chic okanye igadi eluhlaza. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ube nombono wendawo yephupha lakho. Ngoku, makhe sithethe ngamanyathelo asebenzayo. Qala ngezinto ezisisiseko: coca nayiphi na i-debris kunye ne-declutter. Indawo ecocekileyo isisiseko sayo nayiphi na inguqu. Emva koko, cinga malunga ne-landscaping yakho. Ukongeza izityalo kunokuzisa ubomi kunye nombala. Khetha umxube weeperennials kunye nonyaka wobuhle bonyaka wonke. Okulandelayo, qwalasela ifanitshala yakho. Izihlalo ezitofotofo ngundoqo kumoya wolwamkelo. Jonga iinketho zokumelana nemozulu ezihambelana nesimbo sakho. Ukubandakanya umbhoxo wangaphandle kunokubopha indawo kunye, okwenza ukuba uzive ngakumbi njengokwandiswa kwekhaya lakho. Ukukhanyisa yenye into ebalulekileyo. Izibane zentambo okanye izibane zinokwenza i-ambiance yomlingo ngokuhlwa. Musa ukujongela phantsi amandla okukhanya okulungileyo-kunokutshintsha ngokupheleleyo i-vibe yendawo yakho yangaphandle. Okokugqibela, yongeza uchuku lomntu. Nokuba yimiqamelo yokuhombisa, umgodi womlilo, okanye into encinci yamanzi, ezi nkcukacha zenza indawo ibe yeyakho. Isishwankathelo, ukuguqula indawo yakho yangaphandle akufuneki kube nzima. Qala ngombono ocacileyo, qokelela inkuthazo, kwaye uthathe amanyathelo asebenzayo ukuwenza uphile. Ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, uya kuba nendawo emangalisayo elungele ukuphumla okanye ukonwabisa. Ukuhombisa okuvuyisayo!

Xa kufikwa ekonwabeni okuhle ngaphandle, ndihlala ndizifumana ndinengxaki yomcimbi oqhelekileyo: indlela yokuguqula indawo yam yangaphandle ibe yindawo epholileyo nenomtsalane. Ndiyazi ukuba andindedwa kulo mzabalazo. Uninzi lwethu luphupha ngepatio entle okanye igadi kodwa siziva sisoyikeka ngamanyathelo afunekayo ukufezekisa oko. Masiyiqhekeze. Nanga amanye amanyathelo alula endiwafumene eluncedo ekuphakamiseni ubomi bangaphandle: 1. Chaza iSithuba Sakho Kuqala, jonga kakuhle ummandla wakho wangaphandle. Ufuna ukuyisebenzisela ntoni? Indawo yokuphumla, indawo edlamkileyo yokuhlanganisana yabahlobo, okanye indawo yokosa inyama yosapho? Ngokuchaza injongo, ndiyakwazi ukugxila kwizinto eziyimfuneko eziza kwenza indawo yam yangaphandle isebenze kwaye ijabule. 2. Khetha iFanitshala eNtofontofo Emva koko, ndiye ndabona ukuba intuthuzelo yeyona nto iphambili. Ukwenza utyalo-mali kwifanitshala yangaphandle epholileyo kunokwenza umahluko wehlabathi. Cinga ngokongeza izitulo ezimbalwa ezikhuselweyo okanye i-hammock apho ndingakhulula khona. Ndakhe ndathenga isitulo segumbi lokuphumla, kwaye ngokukhawuleza yaba yindawo endiyithandayo yokufunda emva kwemini enelanga. 3. Yongeza uHlaza Izityalo zinokuphefumla ubomi kuyo nayiphi na indawo engaphandle. Ndaqala ngezityalo ezimbalwa zeembiza kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe ndongeza ezinye. IiHerbs lukhetho olukhulu kakhulu; azibukeki zilungile kuphela, kodwa zongeza incasa ekutyeni kwam. Kwaye, ukunyamekela isitiya sam esincinci kuye kwaba yinto yokuzonwabisa eyonwabisayo. 4. Yenza i-Ambiance Ukukhanya kubalulekile ekusetezeni umoya. Izibane zentambo okanye izibane zinokuguqula urhatya oluqhelekileyo lube yinto enomlingo. Ndikhumbula ndisindleke indibano encinane apho ndaxhoma khona izibane zasentsomini, kwaye iindwendwe zam azizange zikwazi ukuyeka ukuncoma umoya. Iyamangalisa into enokwenziwa kukubengezela okuncinane! 5. Ukuchukunyiswa koBuntu Okokugqibela, ndifumanise ukuba ukongeza ukubamba umntu kwenza indawo ibe yeyam ngokwenene. Nokuba ngumraphu wangaphandle onemibala, imihombiso ekhethekileyo, okanye iqula lomlilo kobo busuku bubandayo, ezi zinto zibonisa ubuntu bam kwaye zenza indawo ibenomtsalane. Isishwankathelo, ukuphakamisa ubomi bangaphandle akufuneki kube ngumsebenzi onzima. Ngokuchaza indawo, ukukhetha ifanitshala etofotofo, ukongeza uhlaza, ukudala i-ambiance, kunye nokubandakanya ukubamba komntu, ndiyiguqule indawo yam yangaphandle ibe yindawo endiyithandayo yekhaya lam. Ukuba ndingayenza, nawe ungayenza! Qhagamshelana nathi namhlanje ukuze ufunde ngakumbi uJason Chan: info@halospas.com/WhatsApp ++8618829916021.

1. Chan J 2023 Vula iiMfihlo kwiPhupha lakho langaphandle 2. Chan J 2023 Yenza iOasis ePheleleyo yangaphandle ngezi Ncebiso Indawo Nantsi Njani 6. Chan J 2023 Phakamisa Ukuphila Kwakho Kwangaphandle Amanyathelo Alula Onokuwalandela